Today in Victoria, it’s sunny and beautiful and that’s good. It feels like spring and later I’ll be out there taking photos of all my flowers in the garden. Today, at the Olympics, just across the strait from me, the snow is melting and that is not good.
But today I’m thinking of other people who are still waiting for spring to come. Friends who are stuck in snow, cold and sometimes depending on where they live, rain and fog. I remember when we lived in Calgary and the wait for spring could sometimes last till June! Now I’m in Victoria where spring comes in February. I know when I’m lucky.
So it’s that time of year, not quite spring, not quite enough light out, and depending on where you live, maybe gray skies, maybe cold weather. It’s enough to get anyone down. Of course, a person can get the blues anytime, no reason. And then there are those days when you want to create something but nada, zip, can’t get in the mood, no inspiration.
What to do? Well, over the years I’ve made up a few tricks to get me going. Some have to do with beating the blues and some have to do with getting creative, which for me is sort of the same thing.
So I’ve decided to make a list of 10 Things I’ve been known to do to conquer the “Winter Blues”. Some of these are good for the “Anytime Blues”. I’ve got more, but hey, 10 is a good number to start with. So here we go, 10 things in no particular order, to get over the “Winter, not yet Spring Blues” according to yours truly.
1. I put on some good dancing music! I personally like ABBA, since even their sad songs sound happy and you can dance to them. I dance all over the house, no one to see me and I get pretty wild. When I’m all out of breath, and feeling pretty hot (literally), I notice that somehow I just feel happier.
2. I turn on the lights! OK this may sound odd, in these days of conserving energy and all, but if it’s the long days of darkness getting me down, a bit of light helps. Especially on those long gray days when it’s dark enough to need light to read by and it’s still daytime!
3. I go for a walk and take my camera. I give myself an assignment to find one beautiful thing and photograph it. Oddly enough I usually find lots of things once I really start looking.
4. I check my biorhythm. If it turns out that the reason I’m so blue is because of a crisis day, well, I decide to slide through it. Get out a book, make a pot of tea and if I can, read the day away. No guilt. Did I mention, have some chocolate?
5. I go shopping. OK, I know, I know. But then I shop in thrift stores and I just never know what I might find. Maybe I’ll find some new beads for a bracelet, some great dishes to break for mosaic, or an odd ornament that catches my eye. It’s all cheap so no guilt and bonus, I got out of the house too.
6. I go to the library. Now this is free and a great place to find inspiration. I might even find a book on how to be less depressed! Or about gardening, or art or color or well, the list goes on. I’m a great reader of Self-help. There are always a few pearls worth finding. And if all else fails, a good murder mystery will always cheer me up. I know that doesn’t make any sense, but I like mysteries.
7. I organize something, even a kitchen drawer will do. If I can’t get inspired to create, sometimes I just use the time to clean out the studio and organize it for my next project. Sometimes just finding things I’d forgotten about in the mess is enough to get me started on a new idea.
8. I clean something. One way for me to work off negative energy is to clean. There is something about having a clean stove, tidy cupboards, newly lined shelves or kitchen drawers that just is cheering. Maybe it’s some sort of Dutch gene or something. So here’s the up side to being down – if I didn’t get down now and then, the house would never get cleaned.
9. I go out in the garden and weed. Is it making order out of chaos? Is it just the exercise? Or is it that feeling of accomplishment after I’ve filled up a wheelbarrow with weeds for the compost that makes me feel good? Or is it the look of a freshly weeded flower bed? Could be all or any of the above. And if it’s covered in snow where you live, or raining sideways, well, sorting through last years photos of the garden is always a good pick me up in my book.
9.5 – Better yet, I go out and treat myself to some flowers.
10. I make soup or bake something. There is something meditative and relaxing about cooking and baking. All that chopping and mixing and checking the recipes. And the smell of soup or baking, well, can’t beat that. And then, while the soup is simmering or the cake is baking…..
11. I call a friend. And if my friend is feeling blue, hey, even better because there is nothing more apt to get you out of a blue mood than talking about it and getting happier with a friend. Oh I suppose technically that’s 11 Ways to get out of a blue mood. Well, there you go, a bonus.
What’s your favourite way to beat the winter blues? Please leave a comment and share.
14 thoughts on “10 Things To Do To Get Over The It’s-Almost-Spring-Time-but-Not-Yet Blues”
I love those vases… great color and they look so nice against the light window.
I had forgotten about biorhythms – I used to have a little program on the computer to check them daily!
Great list – If I get low – I just need to get physical (walking, cleaning, gardening) it usually helps.
Love the coloured glass in the window – made me smile as I have a window like that, but my glass is blue and pink 🙂
yes living in calgary sucks, the weather is just so up and down, snow, cloudy, windy, smoggy, going for a walk is treacherous, ice build up everywhere. got happy just looking at the pics of your garden sprouting. cant wait to move out there for good. Love ya. have a great day. shirl
Thanks Helen, this is another one worth sending out en masse, but now it’s out – you are indeed the Goddess of Good Cheer! Thanks for the pick-me-up (I’m going to see if I can print this and then stick it on my fridge) and thanks for the call :^)
New motto: make art, be happy (or whatever strikes your fancy).
The colored glass in the window is just beautiful. I am always drawn to things made of colorful glass. You have inspired me to begin a collection of vases and bottles. During the warmer months, the garden has a way of always lifting my spirits. And, during the winter, like you, I enjoy getting outside with my camera and studying the bare branches of the trees, or the sun and shadows which seem much more prominent among the quiet landscape. A lovely post!
Hi Liisa, you’ll enjoy collecting vases. Most of mine are garage sale and thrift finds and you could say finding them lifts my spirits too.
Mary Lou I must say I like that… being the Goddess of Good Cheer, that is. I also like the new motto, making art has always made me happy, especially when it turns out.
Shirl, you will love it here, Spring in February, trees in bloom on every street and hey, golf for you almost every month of the year!
Sounds like we do some of the same things to beat the blues, walking, cleaning and gardening and I’m sure for you, some artwork too Karen. As for the glass, I always feel glass just has to have light shining through it to really show it off.
Jenn, glad you enjoy the vases in the window. Colored glass is only one of my collections and I love the look of the sun shining through them too. BTW enjoyed your Dirty Girl Gardening blog.
When I’m feeling blue, I drive to Dallas Road and watch the dogs. They are always so happy to see other doggies and such fun to watch them all running and playing — completely oblivious to my blue mood. Within a very short time, I feel significantly better. Thank God, for off-leash areas!
I was feeling low this morning. It’s raining here in London and has been for awhile – I even tried having a nap but I lay there ‘thinking’ about all the things I should be doing. So I went to your blog (thanks to ML sending the link again yesterday) and I feel so much brighter for reading your lovely and cheery words … thank you!
Lia, I love your method of dispelling the blues. Dogs are the best. They live in the here and now and are always ready to have fun. Plus, our dog, now gone for many years, always seemed to be an optomist…he was pretty sure that on a walk, someone would have dog treats in their pockets just for him.
Barbara, I’m glad to hear that my words cheered you a bit. It’s very gratifying to hear that what I write strikes a chord.